Things are different than we think. And that is as it should be. Otherwise the hearts of men could not be put on display here in this life, and the proving that this estate was designed to accomplish would fail.
We should be afraid to hold office over others. We should have pity or compassion for those who are called to these positions. Instead, we envy those who hold offices in the church. Nephi counseled against this. (2 Ne. 26: 21.)
Now is the great day of deception when darkness covers so much of the social order that madness reigns. If you just turned the light on and saw our day as clearly as Nephi did you'd marvel at the abundant foolishness, vanity and errors we entertain. To do that you only need to read what Nephi wrote and realize he's talking to and about US; not those who will never read the book.
We're being tested. More importantly, I'm being tested. So I need to "work out my salvation with fear and trembling before the Lord" just as Paul suggested. (Philip. 2: 12.)